Punishment chair, Collars and assorted toys and suspended spreader bar.
Collars and punishment chair
Play table and scary studded paddle *ouch*
more to come *grins*
Monday, December 28
WERE BUILDING A DUNGEON!!!
WERE BUILDING A DUNGEON!!! omg its so awesome. We cleared out all the junk from the back room and cleaned it and unpacked all the gear. Here are some pictures :)
Punishment chair, Collars and assorted toys and suspended spreader bar.
Collars and punishment chair
Play table and scary studded paddle *ouch*
more to come *grins*
Punishment chair, Collars and assorted toys and suspended spreader bar.
Collars and punishment chair
Play table and scary studded paddle *ouch*
more to come *grins*
Tuesday, December 8
Potplant holders and other assorted gardening accessories :)
So far i’ve talked a bit about the importance of a collar, and a small selection of whips etc that are used in the BDSM world. However, there are other implements, and tools that are available for use. Not all cause pain, some are used for restraint or for pleasure. There are some that can be quite complicated and others can be as simple as a length of rope. All however are deliciously fun!
Whilst the idea of being shackled in a dungeon surrounded by sinful devices of torture is abhorrent and quite frankly terrifying for some, for me it would be the perfect night out (or in if you’re lucky enough to have your own dungeon). In this post i would like to expose you to some of the different tools of play and explain their uses and the why behind anyone wanting to have them used on themselves. ill try to break it up into categories and keep it as simple and easy to read as possible.
Bondage gear and restraints
Basic Restraints
The most obvious type of restraint that is not only effective but creates a certain intimacy and beauty when used is rope. The best rope to use is a soft cotton rope as it is versatile and will leave the desired marks without the unwanted damage. You want to avoid using a rope that slips against itself and before you attempt any rope bondage KNOW YOUR KNOTS. You don't want to be half way through tying up your willing slave when you realize you cant get her out.
A benefit of rope is the intimacy it creates between the Dominant and their submissive. There is a lot of need for touch and communication between the two and knowing that your bound by knots your Dom has tied himself can be quite soothing and calming.
Chain has much the same effect as rope although it carries added risk or injury if it is used in the same manner. I find that its best used in measured lengths with clips on either end and paired with a set of leather or metal cuffs.
Cuffs are the easiest form of restraint. Whether they be a $15 pair with fluffy pink lining or the far more expensive iron shackles, they are all easily available and easily put on or taken off. They require little skill unless you have resided in Tasmania for more then 3 years...then your on the wrong side of the padded cuffs. In any case its illegal to do that with your cousin.
Cuffs are very adaptable and can be used in conjunction with both rope and chain. They’re also a useful accessory when going out or showing of Your slave in public (or being shown off). It leaves no doubt in peoples minds about who she belongs too and re-enforces that her collar isn’t just a fashion statement. Just be courteous and remember to uncuff her when its time to eat...the soup course could end tragically otherwise.
Cages and Confinement
Being Confined, whether it be in a cage or in some other way was always something that i had put on my mental list of things i wouldn't do, and even to this day i haven't participated in it. But recently the idea has been becoming intriguing and ive found that i actually have enough trust in my Dom that i would in the very least try it. Confinement doesn't necessarily have to be inside a cage. It could be as simple as being told to stay in one room, or in a closet.
Verbal Restraint
Being verbally restrained, asked to lay there and stay still while anything could be done to you, or nothing at all, is one of the hardest things ive ever had to do. When your restrained and spanked or whipped its easier to take. You can struggle against your restraints and cry out. When your unbound, you cant rationalize that the pain is being DONE to you because you have every opportunity to escape or move away. In essence your subjecting yourself to it and willing it to happen. You should never underestimate the mental effect of being verbally restrained.
That's all for this post as its getting a bit long, but in my next you can look forward to a continued article on toys and implements of pain and punishment :D
Respectfully,
girl
Whilst the idea of being shackled in a dungeon surrounded by sinful devices of torture is abhorrent and quite frankly terrifying for some, for me it would be the perfect night out (or in if you’re lucky enough to have your own dungeon). In this post i would like to expose you to some of the different tools of play and explain their uses and the why behind anyone wanting to have them used on themselves. ill try to break it up into categories and keep it as simple and easy to read as possible.
Bondage gear and restraints
Basic Restraints
The most obvious type of restraint that is not only effective but creates a certain intimacy and beauty when used is rope. The best rope to use is a soft cotton rope as it is versatile and will leave the desired marks without the unwanted damage. You want to avoid using a rope that slips against itself and before you attempt any rope bondage KNOW YOUR KNOTS. You don't want to be half way through tying up your willing slave when you realize you cant get her out.
A benefit of rope is the intimacy it creates between the Dominant and their submissive. There is a lot of need for touch and communication between the two and knowing that your bound by knots your Dom has tied himself can be quite soothing and calming.
Chain has much the same effect as rope although it carries added risk or injury if it is used in the same manner. I find that its best used in measured lengths with clips on either end and paired with a set of leather or metal cuffs.
Cuffs are the easiest form of restraint. Whether they be a $15 pair with fluffy pink lining or the far more expensive iron shackles, they are all easily available and easily put on or taken off. They require little skill unless you have resided in Tasmania for more then 3 years...then your on the wrong side of the padded cuffs. In any case its illegal to do that with your cousin.
Cuffs are very adaptable and can be used in conjunction with both rope and chain. They’re also a useful accessory when going out or showing of Your slave in public (or being shown off). It leaves no doubt in peoples minds about who she belongs too and re-enforces that her collar isn’t just a fashion statement. Just be courteous and remember to uncuff her when its time to eat...the soup course could end tragically otherwise.
Cages and Confinement
Being Confined, whether it be in a cage or in some other way was always something that i had put on my mental list of things i wouldn't do, and even to this day i haven't participated in it. But recently the idea has been becoming intriguing and ive found that i actually have enough trust in my Dom that i would in the very least try it. Confinement doesn't necessarily have to be inside a cage. It could be as simple as being told to stay in one room, or in a closet.
Verbal Restraint
Being verbally restrained, asked to lay there and stay still while anything could be done to you, or nothing at all, is one of the hardest things ive ever had to do. When your restrained and spanked or whipped its easier to take. You can struggle against your restraints and cry out. When your unbound, you cant rationalize that the pain is being DONE to you because you have every opportunity to escape or move away. In essence your subjecting yourself to it and willing it to happen. You should never underestimate the mental effect of being verbally restrained.
That's all for this post as its getting a bit long, but in my next you can look forward to a continued article on toys and implements of pain and punishment :D
Respectfully,
girl
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